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  • tom 1:08 pm on May 23, 2009 Permalink
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    Dads And Kids Camping Weekend 2009 

    I should know by now that if I don’t write up the adventures of our weekend directly when I return that I’ll have forgotten many fun details.  It’s been a week since our weekend camping excursion and already memories have begun to fade.  Let’s see what I can manage to recover.

    We chose Buena Vista Recreation Area this year as our destination.  I hadn’t been there since I was 17 years old and as nostalgia will do, I had very fond memories of the place.  Looking back now I can remember a few “hiccups” along the way from back then.  No matter, it ended up being GRrrrrreat! this year.

    First the toys:  We had two boats and two personal watercraft.  We also brought a keg which may not seem like a toy at first but what it does is turn many other things into toys after sufficient tapping.  Some other non-toys that belong in this department were the full propane BBQ, coffee maker, 3 generators, mobile wifi hotspot, laptop, dvd player and microwave.  We also brought tents so this should still qualify as “camping”, right?

    Kent arrived first, then me, Darin and Matt, all within a few minutes of each other.  It so happens that we’re the core-four who manage these trips every year so it’s fitting that we should snag the killer tent locations first.  More on this later (Darn you Uncle Pat!).  Kent’s older daughter is 15 but is already a master camper.  She can handle any aspect of setup, maintenance and tear down.  Of course, Kent allows her to prove it each year (you lucky dawg Kent!).

    I only had Ben with me on Friday night because Abby had her championship softball game Saturday morning (we lost) and wouldn’t head up until that evening with neighbor TQ.  So Ben and I put up the tent with a beautiful view of the lake and afternoon shade.  Uncle Pat arrive about an hour later and as I was finishing off some work on the laptop he managed to lay out his tent gear directly in front of my view!  Swoop!  That boy has balls of steel for pulling a stunt like that.  It wasn’t until he had nearly staked his corners that I noticed and by then it was too late for proper harassment.  I’ll get you next year Uncle Pat!

    Our first boat broke almost immediately.  It really is a sweet ride but she’s a bit fragile, especially when Darin is at the helm.  Sorry bro… I’m gonna have to blame you for the breakdown.  No worries though, we were at Dads and kids camping weekend and it takes a lot more than a broken boat to ruin our time.    Besides, we had a spare and two other water toys… doesn’t everybody?

    Pat and I tossed the football around while the kids played in the lake.  It was a beautiful thing because the water is just a few feet away and it is only knee deep for the first 30 feet out or so.  We were able to give the kids a lot of latitude as compared to so many other lakes.

    Eventually I got Ben setup with his fishing pole and he and Megan took turns casting off the shore hoping for a nibble.  They never did catch anything but they were having a ball.

    Oh yeah, I also had Julia (Johnboy’s daughter) with me because Johnny had a test for work to take on Saturday.  She and Emma are the same age so they paired up and took off for trouble (the good kind).  We ended up with two other girls of the same age so things really worked out well for that group.

    We only had one “first-timer” with us (Brian Scully) and he fit in immediately.  We need a nice balance of patience with other families, other adults correcting your child and you correcting other children when needed.  It also doesn’t hurt if you like hanging around the campfire with a beer or two but that is in no way a requirement.  Thanks for cruising out Brian!

    I’d say the only sour feeling we experienced was the police and park rangers.  Complete assholes across the board.  These are the exact personalities that should not be in law enforcement.  We only ended up with one ticket for the weekend (for something that was completely incorrect of course and as usual) but plenty of threats for the sole purpose of wielding their power.  Not surprised but it’s always disappointing when it occurs.  A bunch of us chipped in to pay for the cost of the ticket because the guy who got it also brought the jetskis and he effectively took a bullet for the entire crew to placate the idiots with guns and badges.

    Except for the police run-in, Saturday went off without a hitch.  All sun, tons of boating and plenty of time in the water.  As has become tradition we did a group meal Saturday night with ribs, tri-tip, steak, burgers, dogs and all the fixins.  We grazed for most of the night before switching to s’mores and other kidlet treats.  What’s great about this sort of thing is, we don’t even coordinate that stuff very tightly.  I brought skewers, marshmellows, graham crackers and chocolate as did Uncle Pat.  There was just enough but not a lot to bring home or toss.  Same with dinner and….

    Sunday morning breakfast has also become a traditional group meal.  Kent, Matt and Darin brought plenty of eggs, sausage, churiso (sp?), juice, etc.  Again, we had it nailed pretty close so we didn’t end up tossing much at all.  It’s taken us a few years to get this right but I think we’ve got it nailed pretty well at this point.

    Sunday morning Tim Infhur had to leave early and he had our “spare” boat.  That finally prompted Matt to have a good luck at our broken first boat.  Being a direct descendant to MacGyver, he was able to get it running though there were a few tricks to make it work out on the water.  For example, you couldn’t move into neutral while under power so if you were pulling a skier and he fell you had to be a bit more on your game.  And the trim needed some manual “help”.  We used the crap out of that thing until noon-ish.  And then it was time to start packing up.

    Both setup and tear-down took longer this year than I remember in recent past and for almost everyone.  Not sure the reason but that’s how it went down.  I suppose we just took our time because the weather was so great and none of us really wanted to leave.  So we lazed along and packed things up while the kids played in the lake.  And for sure, if you take the time to pack up properly it makes life SOOoooo much easier when you get home.

    It was just under a two-hour drive home and when I got back (with the help of my dear wife Kerri) I was done unpacking in 15 minutes.  That’s about the time I should have written this post because there would have been more action sequences to describe but for now, this is the most reasonable summary I could come up with.  If you want to make it a shorter story you can use something like this:

    Excited to be there.  Lots of toys and conveniences.  Uncle Pat!  Cops.  Great weather and water.  Fellowship.  Fun.  Sad to leave.  Home.

    Lastly:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xlqm1Z9FWec (just pics)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6y5Teo5j_M (evil developer Pat)

     
  • tom 2:15 pm on May 21, 2009 Permalink
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    8 years with Citi Bank for a credit card, never a late payment and my interest rate got jacked to 17.99% with no warning. Called and asked what the prob was and they told me my contract allowed for it. Totally… I know it does. But *why* did they do it? No reason could be provided.

    Sent in a check today to pay it off and will cancel once that check is processed. What about others who have always paid on time who don’t have the means to simply pay off their card in one shot?

    I’m not in favor of regulating this behavior necessarily but I do think some of these card companies are doing permanent harm to their reputations with this recent type of behavior. Oh, and did I mention that I also have a bank account with Citi? Yes, that’ll be closed too. Howz that feel Shitty-Bank?

     
  • tom 8:13 pm on May 14, 2009 Permalink
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    Store will have to wait until morning. Ben and I are dragging out our gear and piling up in the corner for a quick load of the truck tomorrow.

     
  • tom 4:48 pm on May 14, 2009 Permalink
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    So Ready For Dads And Kids Camping Weekend 

    When work is done tonight I’ll head out to the store for the final remaining bits I’ll want for our annual Dads and Kids Camping Weekend… I believe this is our 9th.  I love this last part almost as much as the weekend itself due to the anticipation factor.

    We’ll likely only end up with one boat though two may show up if the right things happen.  And three jetski-ish devices will be there as well.

    Only bummer for me is, Abby’s team ended in 1st place and we won our playoff game so we’re in the championship game on Saturday.  That means she won’t get up there until Saturday evening.  It’ll be great to have dedicated time with Ben which is something I don’t get enough of so that’s cool too.  I’ll miss being at the game — Excitement level is very high with the girls, even though we never stress “winning”.  It’s really a hoot to experience.

    I may even blog from the lake because, you know, I’m bringing a mobile hot-spot system with me.  Only reason it won’t happen is if everyone stays up all night, each night.  That’s a totally reasonable possibility.  We’ll see.  Hoping for a great time and minimal injuries this weekend!

     
  • tom 8:17 am on May 14, 2009 Permalink
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    Ben reacts so badly to mosquito bites. He got one on his cheek and one on his ear last night and this morning it looks like he got attacked by a tarantula.

     
  • tom 7:57 am on May 13, 2009 Permalink
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    Our Puppy Has Crossed The Line 

    I can tell I’m over it now because I fed Dale this morning without having to fight the urge to boot his ass into next week.

    I’m no stranger to puppies so I’ve not been surprised by his constant chewing and property destruction… it kinda goes with the territory for the first couple of years, at least with Lab pups.  Last night was a true shocker though when I came home from softball (we won!)  to find that not only had he torn up a bunch of crap, pulled over a trash can and dragged everything out but he actually had jumped up onto my desk.  My desk is actually a drafting table so it’s quite high as compared to normal desks for computer work.  I like to stand most of the time so I can pace or whatever.  But enough about my own wierdness and back to the lucky-to-be-alive pooch.

    He must have been prancing all over the desk because paw prints were everywhere but worst of all is that 3 of the keys on my laptop keyboard are completely gone with another one severely injured.  He even managed to type some characters into my jabber client that got sent to Joe and then a few more that never made it across the wire.  Can you imagine if I had a root shell open to one of my boxes and his paws managed “rm -r /”?  It’s not too far fetched considering his last transmission was “-i;./'”.

    Today I need to make a decision and so far I can only think of three reasonable choices:  1) Get a crate and sentence him to confinement whenever I leave.  2) Run a wire across my backyard and attach him to it like a zip line so he can run a bit but not make it inside.  3) Take him back to a shelter.  Number 3 is basically off the table because my kids love him and even in my most upset frame of mind I don’t think I could do it unless he was aggressively biting people.  I’m leaning towards the crate because several folks I know swear by them, indicating their dogs love it.  I don’t know how anyone could love it but I’ve seen those happy dog faces behind bars more than once.

    Some of you may be wondering about a potential option 4 which would be to simply lock him outside while I’m gone.   If I only had Dale I would do it in a hot second but I’ve also got 11 year old Sunshine who has been my best pal since I moved here almost 9 years ago.  He has always had full run of the yard, The Garage and the house while I’m gone.  I just can’t bring myself to punish him that way, especially in the later years of his life.

    I have to admit that I would like to give him another shot at wide berth but not so much for his sake… I’d like to put a video camera up above my desk and record what occurs in my absence.  It must be an absolute circus.  And who knows, perhaps it’s Sunshine setting the little guy up.  I can just imagine Sunny knocking over the trash can knowing that Dale will get punished.  I envision Dale trying to put everything back into the can and telling Sunny (in dog speak of course… they’re not humans!) what an asshole he is for getting him busted while Sunny makes a dog version of a smirk, giving Dale the middle pad, if you know what I mean.

    Next up is a trip to dell.com to get over-charged for a crappy new keyboard.  I hate taking laptops apart because they’re never quite the same once you break the seal.

    One last note:  Something in the back right corner of my desk if making a deep-ish clicking sound from time to time as I type and it is driving me out of my F’in tree!  Whatever he did it seems to be somewhat permanent.  I may need to take everything apart and rebuild because if you think I’m a weirdo now I’ll be in dire need of a straight-jacket by the end of the day if the noise continues.  Option 5:  Dogskin hat and puppy stew… perhaps.

     
    • Hugh McDonald 8:22 am on May 13, 2009 Permalink

      Have you talked with a professional trainer?

      http://www.unclematty.com

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    • Molly 8:51 am on May 13, 2009 Permalink

      Sunshine used to be on a zip line in front of my place in Mammoth – mostly while I was at work. Because he would eat everything. But then someone started stealing dogs, so eventually he had to come with me to work and sit in the back of my truck. He HATED the zip line but seemed to enjoy the truck. I guess my point is that I’d try the crate.

    • Laura 5:44 pm on May 13, 2009 Permalink

      Thomas get the crate and ride through it. It is soooo worth it. I would never not crate train a dog. Benefits are superior. They will learn to love their own space honestly. They need bounderies and your house is not one. They can be weaned off it after they are 1ish 2 ish if you want.

    • tom 6:04 pm on May 13, 2009 Permalink

      Seems like Mom has a crate from a previous dog (R.I.P.) that I can borrow so I’m gonna try that route for a while. Thanks for the input!

    • Hugh McDonald 12:32 pm on May 14, 2009 Permalink

      The key element in Laura”s advice, for me, was “crate train”. I didn’t consider the training aspect which is likely why my experience with Casey II was a failure.

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  • tom 9:13 am on May 12, 2009 Permalink
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    I’m always shocked when I run into someone who won’t shake your hand because they’re afraid of the germs that can be spread but I rarely think about my own fear of flying. The term “odd” is most certainly subjective.

     
  • tom 8:56 am on May 12, 2009 Permalink
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    Getting really excited about the Dads and kids camping weekend, starting this Friday. Had a meeting of the original four Dads last night to get the group meals worked out, boat duties, etc. This could be the best one yet. Kinda weird calling it “camping” these days… we’ll have generators, internet access, a coffee maker and a dvd player. But we’ll also have some tents so that’s something camp-ish. 😉

     
  • tom 11:28 pm on May 11, 2009 Permalink
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    Been told more than once that I look like Ron Howard. Not sure if it’s a compliment to me or a slam on him. http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2009/03/actors-directors-portfolio200903?slide=6#globalNav

     
  • tom 4:19 pm on May 10, 2009 Permalink
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    Trying this again… my last post disappeared into the ether.

    Went to Malibu Creek State Park for Mother’s Day. All 6 siblings showed up along with their kids and my parents. Quite fun for me and judging by how filthy the kids are I’d say they had a good time too.

     
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